Coparenting Can Be Hard, This Book Makes It Easier: Cooperative Co-Parenting for Secure Kids: The Attachment Theory Guide to Raising Kids in Two Homes by Aurisha Smolarski
The fact of the matter is that coparenting in divorce presents a unique set of challenges, often rooted in the emotional complexities and unresolved issues between former partners, and unfortunately for all parties involved, the dissolution of a romantic relationship does not erase the need for effective communication and cooperation when raising children! Coparenting requires navigating shared responsibilities, decision-making, and parenting styles amidst lingering tensions and hurt feelings. It's crucial for coparents to recognize that their relationship dynamic directly impacts their children's well-being and adjustment to the new family structure.
So, how can coparents figure this all out? Well, we have a solution for you - and we’re thrilled about it. Our very own Fresh Starts Expert Aurisha Smolarski’s book, Cooperative Co-Parenting for Secure Kids: The Attachment Theory Guide to Raising Kids in Two Homes.
How can reading Cooperative Co-Parenting for Secure Kids: The Attachment Theory Guide to Raising Kids in Two Homes help you?
Get a Handle on Co-Parenting: This book breaks down co-parenting in a way that doesn't feel like reading a boring manual.
Ease the Stress: Learn how to navigate co-parenting without feeling overwhelmed or like you're always walking on eggshells.
Understand Your Kids Better: Gain insights into attachment theory, so you understand why your kids act the way they do and how you can support them better.
Improve Communication: Get practical tips on how to communicate better with your ex, even when you'd rather not talk to them at all.
Create Consistency: Discover strategies for creating consistency between two households, so your kids feel secure no matter where they are.
Make Transitions Easier: Learn how to make transitions between homes smoother for everyone involved, reducing stress and tantrums.
Put Your Kids First: Understand why putting your kids' needs first is crucial, even when you're dealing with your own emotions and frustrations.
Build a Better Relationship: Find ways to build a better relationship with your ex for the sake of your kids, without sacrificing your own well-being.
Feel Empowered: Get the tools you need to feel empowered and in control of your co-parenting journey, even when things seem chaotic.
Take Charge of Your Co-Parenting Journey: With Cooperative Co-Parenting for Secure Kids, you'll feel more confident and capable of navigating the challenges of co-parenting, one step at a time.
About Aurisha Smolarski
As a therapist, a trained mediator and a co-parent myself, I am very familiar with the challenges faced by co-parents, who are trying to raise a child together. The tendency is to let problems that exist between the co-parents spill over into their parenting. I can help you successfully end one relationship, your romantic one, so you can be in a co-parenting one with confidence, calm and cooperation.
My style is relational, dynamic, engaging, motivating, supportive, and warm. My work is grounded in attachment theory science, solution based strategies and compassion as I bring an unbiased approach to helping your co-parenting team stay focused on creating a cooperative structure that will support your children. You can learn more about Aurisha on her Fresh Starts profile.