5 Fresh Tips to Help You Understand the Reality of Divorce with Men’s Divorce Coach Jason Scriven
Learning how to understand the reality of divorce can be overwhelming, but you’re not alone! Check out these 5 Fresh Tips to help you understand the reality of divorce with Men’s Divorce Coach Jason Scriven.
Jason Scriven wants you to come to him at the worst time in your life, so that he can give you the tools and support to: (Re)gain your self respect, lean into your strengths, and find your freedom. He believes that you deserve a new life, that you create your way, and that that feels better than anything you’ve had before. That's his promise to you: A New Life, Strong and Free After Divorce.
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5 Fresh Tips to help you understand the reality of divorce:
There are three parts to a divorce, the Emotional, the Financial, and the Logistical. Unlike marriage, which is two parts emotion and one part transaction, the divorce process is two parts transactional and the sooner you can manage the other emotional part, the more focused and credible you are in completing the business transaction.
Get expert help in each of these 3 areas. See a therapist to help manage the trauma and emotional effects of divorce. Work with a CDFA to understand where your money is and how much you need to pay for the divorce and live your life after divorce. Hire a divorce coach to be a thinking partner as you work through the logistics of divorce.
Every decision is a big decision, even the small ones. So sleep on all decisions (big and small). You don't need to answer in the moment, when emotions can get the best of you. When your ex sends you an email, wait until morning to respond. When the lawyer needs a decision, give it some time to settle. The longer a divorce drags on, the more you want to hurry it up. Slow down and be deliberate with every decision.
Put the kids first or the court will. Unfortunately, what seems obvious to most, that putting the kids in the best situation during and after divorce, gets lost in the minutiae of the divorce or amped up on emotion and we make decisions that are good for us and bad for the kids. Thankfully, the courts usually set things right, but they shouldn't have to.
Done is better than won. You don't have to give away the farm, but spending another $10k to fight for another $20k in settlement makes no sense. Freedom first.